Live in the Moment? Or Plan for Tomorrow?

Tiny CabinIt seems there are two prevalent messages out there these days. And while individually they make sense, when we look at both together, they seem to contradict each other. But do they really?

Let’s start with the one that’s received more attention in the long term: Plan for tomorrow. As a species, we tend to be forward thinking. When we find ourselves in a new or different situation, our brains begin evaluating the options and playing out different scenarios. We do this automatically without conscious thought much of the time.

When we consciously plan, we review options and set course down the path that makes the most sense to us at that time. It’s planning ahead that has resulted in the long-term survival and prosperity of our species. Planning is was brought about agriculture. Farmers plant seeds in the spring and plan to harvest the resulting crops in the fall.

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Creativity Is Not What You Think

What do you think of when you think of someone who’s creative? You probably pictured a painter, musician, or something else in the artistic realm. You probably didn’t think of someone searching for the cure for cancer or writing software to beat the stock market. Yet both of those are highly creative tasks.

Definition of create:
  1. To cause to come into being, as something unique that would not ordinarily evolve or that is not made by ordinary processes
  2. To evolve from one’s own thought or imagination, as a work of art or an invention.

It’s true that when many people think of creative work, they think of artistic professions – painters, sculptors, musical composers, and the like. Basically if you have to buy a ticket to see it, it’s a creative endeavor.

But is that really the case?

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Talent is Overrated! Use This Instead

When you see a great athlete or musician or mathematician, do you think “wow, they’ve got talent!”? You may wonder how some people – other people – got their talent. I mean surely they have some innate gift that allows them to be so good at what they do, right?

You, on the other hand, couldn’t throw a ball or play an instrument or calculate a square root if your life depended on it. After all, you’ve got no talent.

This is complete and utter bullshit.

The only reason those folks can do what they do is because they spent a lot of time practicing and improving themselves. We get a glimpse of this when sportscasters do the stories of Olympic athletes. They’ll tell about how the person spent 4 hours every morning before work practicing and training. Then, after they were done working, they spent another 4 hours training. And if they’re lucky enough to not have to work, they’ll spend 10-12 hours per day training and practicing.

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7 Things You’re Doing That Reduce Your Chance of Success

As we go through life, some of us are successful while others get stuck. What makes the difference? While any number of factors are involved, some are more important. If you want to be successful in life, you need to check if you’re doing any of the seven items listed here. If you are, STOP! These things are holding you back.

Blame Others For Everything

Of all the things you can do that sabotage your success, this is the most damaging one. When you point fingers and give excuses, you may think it’s making you look good, but it really shows how weak you are. People avoid people who constantly blame others for their problems.

Think about the last time you saw a politician blame someone else for something that you knew he actually did. Or, if you have kids, what is your opinion of them they they constantly give excuses for not doing their homework? Not take a look at your self. If you misplace your keys, do you ask, “has anyone seen my keys?” or do you say, “who stole my keys?”

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How is a 6 Year-Old like Nelson Mandela?

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Perseverance

About a month ago, I took my teenage daughter and her friends to the local ice rink. I don’t skate, and my daughter has only been once before, but her friends all skate reasonably well.

While I didn’t put on any skates, my daughter did. For the next hour, she slowly inched her way around the rink with the help of her friends. She fell on more than a few occasions, but kept getting back up again. Read More